[GLUTEN-8627][VL] Fix cpp build and build script on MacOS

[marin-ma]

Fix the cpp compilation error and make builddeps-veloxbe.sh work on MacOS.

Manually tested with ./dev/builddeps-veloxbe.sh --run_setup_script=ON --build_arrow=ON --build_type=Debug --build_tests=ON --build_examples=ON and also tested with switching OFF the build options and Release build type.

Note --build_benchmarks=ON still fails because the function to set CPU affinity on macOS is not supported. I will fix that in a separate patch.

[github-actions]

#8627

[marin-ma]

@FelixYBW @zhouyuan Could you help to review? Thanks!

[zhouyuan]

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[GlutenPerfBot]

===== Performance report for TPCDS SF2000 with Velox backend, for reference only ====

query	log/native_master_01_28_2025_time.csv	log/native_master_01_27_2025_cd7c790ea4_time.csv	difference	percentage
q1	15.86	16.01	0.150	100.95%
q2	15.94	16.56	0.622	103.90%
q3	4.88	5.02	0.147	103.00%
q4	85.33	86.08	0.751	100.88%
q5	12.34	11.46	-0.877	92.89%
q6	4.76	3.56	-1.195	74.88%
q7	8.55	8.80	0.249	102.91%
q8	6.26	4.64	-1.614	74.21%
q9	28.41	28.26	-0.148	99.48%
q10	12.58	13.10	0.514	104.09%
q11	43.53	42.07	-1.466	96.63%
q12	2.28	3.10	0.820	135.95%
q13	9.20	7.98	-1.214	86.80%
q14a	65.05	61.25	-3.801	94.16%
q14b	57.74	58.08	0.344	100.60%
q15	3.39	3.79	0.400	111.81%
q16	29.04	29.34	0.298	101.03%
q17	7.35	7.95	0.597	108.13%
q18	10.62	10.01	-0.611	94.24%
q19	5.05	4.53	-0.517	89.75%
q20	2.24	2.61	0.370	116.54%
q21	1.62	1.50	-0.119	92.68%
q22	9.81	9.78	-0.037	99.62%
q23a	135.70	135.82	0.125	100.09%
q23b	161.03	160.32	-0.709	99.56%
q24a	103.37	105.61	2.237	102.16%
q24b	96.93	106.34	9.417	109.72%
q25	6.66	8.44	1.777	126.68%
q26	4.86	5.26	0.399	108.22%
q27	5.95	5.86	-0.087	98.54%
q28	37.74	38.70	0.959	102.54%
q29	19.78	16.76	-3.025	84.71%
q30	6.47	6.41	-0.056	99.14%
q31	10.20	10.16	-0.035	99.65%
q32	1.97	2.21	0.241	112.25%
q33	7.19	7.18	-0.013	99.81%
q34	4.41	4.46	0.043	100.96%
q35	10.19	10.55	0.366	103.59%
q36	5.76	5.43	-0.329	94.28%
q37	5.22	5.17	-0.052	99.00%
q38	18.08	17.82	-0.262	98.55%
q39a	4.90	4.47	-0.428	91.27%
q39b	4.71	5.00	0.285	106.05%
q40	5.30	5.74	0.440	108.30%
q41	1.13	0.97	-0.155	86.24%
q42	1.35	1.26	-0.090	93.34%
q43	4.49	4.53	0.040	100.90%
q44	11.55	13.38	1.831	115.86%
q45	5.83	4.36	-1.473	74.74%
q46	5.30	5.66	0.365	106.90%
q47	20.76	21.35	0.587	102.83%
q48	6.62	6.24	-0.376	94.32%
q49	10.30	10.98	0.681	106.61%
q50	38.00	38.61	0.616	101.62%
q51	14.38	14.19	-0.200	98.61%
q52	1.31	1.41	0.102	107.82%
q53	3.16	3.16	-0.005	99.84%
q54	6.96	7.23	0.262	103.76%
q55	1.33	3.08	1.748	231.45%
q56	8.92	7.00	-1.917	78.50%
q57	13.35	14.25	0.899	106.73%
q58	4.22	3.50	-0.726	82.81%
q59	7.20	8.61	1.411	119.61%
q60	8.33	8.50	0.161	101.94%
q61	8.55	8.36	-0.193	97.74%
q62	5.27	4.93	-0.346	93.43%
q63	3.14	3.07	-0.072	97.70%
q64	63.17	62.15	-1.018	98.39%
q65	30.44	30.08	-0.357	98.83%
q66	4.30	4.65	0.345	108.02%
q67	227.74	229.69	1.945	100.85%
q68	4.12	4.35	0.232	105.64%
q69	6.92	6.88	-0.036	99.48%
q70	11.89	12.69	0.794	106.68%
q71	4.62	4.72	0.100	102.17%
q72	39.56	40.28	0.724	101.83%
q73	3.25	3.73	0.477	114.69%
q74	27.44	26.76	-0.676	97.54%
q75	43.73	44.44	0.711	101.63%
q76	14.34	14.36	0.021	100.15%
q77	4.40	3.64	-0.764	82.65%
q78	83.90	83.95	0.049	100.06%
q79	5.13	4.97	-0.160	96.88%
q80	17.22	16.75	-0.475	97.24%
q81	8.43	8.27	-0.162	98.08%
q82	10.29	10.14	-0.147	98.57%
q83	2.95	2.86	-0.094	96.82%
q84	3.64	3.45	-0.189	94.81%
q85	9.75	9.59	-0.163	98.33%
q86	4.51	4.51	0.004	100.10%
q87	19.04	18.14	-0.894	95.30%
q88	23.69	22.99	-0.698	97.05%
q89	4.37	4.85	0.476	110.89%
q90	3.44	3.63	0.183	105.32%
q91	5.68	6.04	0.358	106.30%
q92	2.69	1.98	-0.710	73.60%
q93	54.56	54.33	-0.227	99.58%
q94	16.65	17.06	0.417	102.50%
q9	99.75	97.78	-1.972	98.02%
q5	3.26	3.33	0.068	102.09%
q96	28.05	28.22	0.167	100.60%
q97	2.70	3.03	0.328	112.15%
q98	10.22	10.02	-0.200	98.04%
q99	10.22	10.02	-0.200	98.04%
total	2195.54	2202.10	6.567	100.30%