Add pyproject.toml

[loadams]

• Test all build cases this needs to support.
• Test Windows builds/support.
• Confirm pre-compiling ops - works with --no-build-isolation
• Test commit hashes are added to dev builds

The main goal of this effort is to become compliant with the coming changes to pip in 25.1 listed here which will break editable installs. Future PRs will fully move from setup.py to pyproject.toml

Fixes: #7031

[jeffra]

@mrwyattii we just went through some of this with arctic training. If it’s helpful @loadams let’s discuss on slack a bit. There’s a ton that’s currently happening in setup.py, this could be a big lift? But I agree, needs to happen!